joejlitz wrote:Maybe I'm just a little homophobic, but I can't stand to purposely watch a movie where two guys kissed. I tried watching Brokeback Mountain and couldn't make it all the way through.
Am I in the minority here?
EDIT: I'm not homophobic. I think lesbians are awesome. I just don't want to see guys kiss.
Yeah you're homophobic, not in the minority which is unfortunate, but homophobic.
No...I don't think so. I have a gay Army buddy who I consider to be a great friend. Although he and I no longer live in the same area, we continue to keep in touch. His lifestyle choice is his own and I don't like him any less for it.
I think I just don't want to see a man kissing another man. Not my cup of tea.
Yeah I would say that's homophobia. That's like me saying I'm not racist but I don't wanna see a black guy kissing a white girl.
What's the difference between a guy and a girl kissing, a girl and a girl kissing, or a guy and a guy kissing? They're just people and they're just kissing, I don't get it.
Metroid wrote:Yeah you're homophobic, not in the minority which is unfortunate, but homophobic.
No...I don't think so. I have a gay Army buddy who I consider to be a great friend. Although he and I no longer live in the same area, we continue to keep in touch. His lifestyle choice is his own and I don't like him any less for it.
I think I just don't want to see a man kissing another man. Not my cup of tea.
Yeah I would say that's homophobia. That's like me saying I'm not racist but I don't wanna see a black guy kissing a white girl.
What's the difference between a guy and a girl kissing, a girl and a girl kissing, or a guy and a guy kissing? They're just people and they're just kissing, I don't get it.
Ah, that's why you watch gay porn 50% of the time.
joejlitz wrote:No...I don't think so. I have a gay Army buddy who I consider to be a great friend. Although he and I no longer live in the same area, we continue to keep in touch. His lifestyle choice is his own and I don't like him any less for it.
I think I just don't want to see a man kissing another man. Not my cup of tea.
Yeah I would say that's homophobia. That's like me saying I'm not racist but I don't wanna see a black guy kissing a white girl.
What's the difference between a guy and a girl kissing, a girl and a girl kissing, or a guy and a guy kissing? They're just people and they're just kissing, I don't get it.
Ah, that's why you watch gay porn 50% of the time.
Yeah but I make up for it by watching straight interracial porn the other 50% of the time.
joejlitz wrote:Maybe I'm just a little homophobic, but I can't stand to purposely watch a movie where two guys kissed. I tried watching Brokeback Mountain and couldn't make it all the way through.
Am I in the minority here?
EDIT: I'm not homophobic. I think lesbians are awesome. I just don't want to see guys kiss.
You're not homophobic in any way Joe. Don't worry about it. You have a preference that doesn't include men kissing men. I think it's gross (as I do women kissing other women). It's not a homophobic thing. Homophobia is defined as a prejudice and you don't have a prejudice. Neither do I as I also have a friend and an aquaintance who are both aware of my beliefs and still remain friends. I honestly don't know exactly why I think it's gross per say, but I'll shine some light on that. It may be because I'm a Christian, but for me, personally, I'm the visual type, the type that puts himself in situations and putting myself in a situation where I might be kissing a dude is not one that I'm comfortable with. Why? Well, aside from the faith standpoint, it's preference. Just like I wouldn't enjoy a kiss from a woman other than my wife. It would repulse me. Anyway, I think you're fine Joe. There's nothing wrong with you. Keep your friends close, understand your differences, and don't assume that something is wrong with you because MTV says so.
I saw "I Love You, Man" it was extremely funny however I believe I may have caused myself extreme bodily harm...ya see, I had to pee...like at the begginning of the movie; no big deal, I have a very distinct talent of being able to watch entire movies/last long road trips without a stop, no biggie...but I had to go so bad my kidneys started to hurt so I got up to go the bathroom and it hurt to walk...my kidneys still hurt...geez.
BTW I think I broke a record, longest urination ever...ever.
joejlitz wrote:Maybe I'm just a little homophobic, but I can't stand to purposely watch a movie where two guys kissed. I tried watching Brokeback Mountain and couldn't make it all the way through.
Am I in the minority here?
EDIT: I'm not homophobic. I think lesbians are awesome. I just don't want to see guys kiss.
You're not homophobic in any way Joe. Don't worry about it. You have a preference that doesn't include men kissing men. I think it's gross (as I do women kissing other women). It's not a homophobic thing. Homophobia is defined as a prejudice and you don't have a prejudice. Neither do I as I also have a friend and an aquaintance who are both aware of my beliefs and still remain friends. I honestly don't know exactly why I think it's gross per say, but I'll shine some light on that. It may be because I'm a Christian, but for me, personally, 'm the visual type, the type that puts himself in situations and putting myself in a situation where I might be kissing a dude is not one that I'm comfortable with. Why? Well, aside from the faith standpoint, it's preference. Just like I wouldn't enjoy a kiss from a woman other than my wife. It would repulse me. Anyway, I think you're fine Joe. There's nothing wrong with you. Keep your friends close, understand your differences, and don't assume that something is wrong with you because MTV says so.
Personally, the only reason I've never kissed a man is because I'm not sexually attracted to them. It has nothing to do with not putting myself in certain situations. If you're sexually attracted to men, you're gay... it's that simple. Whether or not you actually kiss men or sleep with them is irrelevant. Is a grown man who is sexually attracted to women not a heterosexual just because he's never kissed a girl?