joejlitz wrote:I'm sure the teenage boy thinks that it was AWESOME! But you really gotta think this could ruin his life and ability to have a healthy relationship in the future.
I don't know about that. You could be right, but also I think boys and girls are very different when it comes to sex, even at a very early age. I think it could have far greater potential for harm on a girl than on a boy, simply because of the nature of sex. It's a very different thing to allow someone into your body compared to "invading" someone else's.
I could be way off base here, but I think it's different enough that it's not as traumatic, and maybe not traumatic at all.