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Postby Nfl Fan » Wed Nov 15, 2006 12:39 pm

Twisted Sister wrote:
Omaha Red Sox wrote:It's simple J. If you're comfortable with this behavior, try to make it work. If you're not comfortable with it, then enjoy the memories you had with her and move on. Most likely, you just dodged a bullet. Imagine if you had married this girl and made kids with her and then find this out. It's unfortunate and definitely sucks, but if this isn't what you want, keep looking. Just like women should not expect their men to change, we shouldn't expect it from them either.


Yeah I completely agree. I also agree with knapp. One piece of advice given to me by a relationship counselor is to keep the cage door open. If she wants to leave, let her leave.

Respect yourself and be with someone who wants to stay ;-D

Didn't want to say this, but things have probably been going on with this guy for a while, that is the typical MO of the situation. It is extremely rare that advance warning will be given, she's probably tested the waters with this guy and is feeling 1) guilty and 2) it's time to move on.


What they said.

"Better to do sooner what you know you gotta do sooner or later anyway."

This stuff can hurt, but if she's acting fickle after a two year relationship, then I freaking guarantee you it gets worse after a few years of marriage. Add a couple kids into the equasion and it gets really messy.

Take it from a guy whose been married almost 20 years.... cut bait, learn lots, and move on.
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Postby Metroid » Wed Nov 15, 2006 12:40 pm

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Metroid wrote:It sounds to me like she doesnt want to be in a serious relationship any longer. Thats hard to deal with, even more so if you are really into her. If she has said she wants to be single I dont really know if there is much you can do.

A couple questions though,

Did she feel smothered? I mean were you guys already discussing your future together, marriage, kids, house with a white picket fence? Sometimes people entertain these thoughts in the begining but then start to overwhelmed.

What was her dating history before you? Did she date a lot? Has she only been with a few people? And how old is she/you? If shes young and inexperienced she may feel as though she hasnt lived yet.


Metroid... you've really impressed me ;-D I was expecting some pics to cheer him up, but instead you got "deep." :-b


I can go Dr. Phil when needed. Wait a minute...Dr. Metroid... I like that! :-b

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except from people named, metroid, redskins win and moonhead. those guys really know what they're talking about.


Thats super funny!!! And true. ;-D
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Postby Omaha Red Sox » Wed Nov 15, 2006 1:18 pm

Twisted Sister wrote:Omaha - thanks for the post in my "twista" thread, but I didn't realize you disagree with me a lot :,-(


Yeah, I think I disagreed with you once. I didn't mean to make it sound like I disagreed with you all the time. Sorry. :-/ :-D
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Postby knapplc » Wed Nov 15, 2006 1:26 pm

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Twisted Sister wrote:Omaha - thanks for the post in my "twista" thread, but I didn't realize you disagree with me a lot :,-(


Yeah, I think I disagreed with you once. I didn't mean to make it sound like I disagreed with you all the time. Sorry. :-/ :-D

So.... you don't want me to talk about that PM you sent me where you griped about "that Twisted guy" for two pages? I'll just keep that between you and me then. ;-D
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Postby Twisted Sister » Wed Nov 15, 2006 1:28 pm

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Omaha Red Sox wrote:
Twisted Sister wrote:Omaha - thanks for the post in my "twista" thread, but I didn't realize you disagree with me a lot :,-(


Yeah, I think I disagreed with you once. I didn't mean to make it sound like I disagreed with you all the time. Sorry. :-/ :-D

So.... you don't want me to talk about that PM you sent me where you griped about "that Twisted guy" for two pages? I'll just keep that between you and me then. ;-D


Are you two signature blood brothers or something :-b :-b
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Postby knapplc » Wed Nov 15, 2006 1:30 pm

Twisted Sister wrote:
knapplc wrote:
Omaha Red Sox wrote:
Twisted Sister wrote:Omaha - thanks for the post in my "twista" thread, but I didn't realize you disagree with me a lot :,-(


Yeah, I think I disagreed with you once. I didn't mean to make it sound like I disagreed with you all the time. Sorry. :-/ :-D

So.... you don't want me to talk about that PM you sent me where you griped about "that Twisted guy" for two pages? I'll just keep that between you and me then. ;-D


Are you two signature blood brothers or something :-b :-b

Husker Fans. Same thing, really.

GreatestShowOnEarth and HskrPwr13 have also been sporting the Zac Sig. :-]
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Postby Redskins Win » Wed Nov 15, 2006 1:36 pm

Twisted Sister wrote:
knapplc wrote:
Omaha Red Sox wrote:
Twisted Sister wrote:Omaha - thanks for the post in my "twista" thread, but I didn't realize you disagree with me a lot :,-(


Yeah, I think I disagreed with you once. I didn't mean to make it sound like I disagreed with you all the time. Sorry. :-/ :-D

So.... you don't want me to talk about that PM you sent me where you griped about "that Twisted guy" for two pages? I'll just keep that between you and me then. ;-D


Are you two signature blood brothers or something :-b :-b


they're dating 8-o :-b
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Postby Twisted Sister » Wed Nov 15, 2006 1:37 pm

knapplc wrote:
Twisted Sister wrote:
knapplc wrote:
Omaha Red Sox wrote:
Twisted Sister wrote:Omaha - thanks for the post in my "twista" thread, but I didn't realize you disagree with me a lot :,-(


Yeah, I think I disagreed with you once. I didn't mean to make it sound like I disagreed with you all the time. Sorry. :-/ :-D

So.... you don't want me to talk about that PM you sent me where you griped about "that Twisted guy" for two pages? I'll just keep that between you and me then. ;-D


Are you two signature blood brothers or something :-b :-b

Husker Fans. Same thing, really.

GreatestShowOnEarth and HskrPwr13 have also been sporting the Zac Sig. :-]


Ah... so there is whole roving gang of you guys here on the forums!!

Watch out for the guys with the Texas A&M sigs... I hear they want to meet you behind the school at 3pm. !+)
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Postby knapplc » Wed Nov 15, 2006 1:40 pm

Twisted Sister wrote:
knapplc wrote:
Twisted Sister wrote:
knapplc wrote:
Omaha Red Sox wrote:
Twisted Sister wrote:Omaha - thanks for the post in my "twista" thread, but I didn't realize you disagree with me a lot :,-(


Yeah, I think I disagreed with you once. I didn't mean to make it sound like I disagreed with you all the time. Sorry. :-/ :-D

So.... you don't want me to talk about that PM you sent me where you griped about "that Twisted guy" for two pages? I'll just keep that between you and me then. ;-D


Are you two signature blood brothers or something :-b :-b

Husker Fans. Same thing, really.

GreatestShowOnEarth and HskrPwr13 have also been sporting the Zac Sig. :-]


Ah... so there is whole roving gang of you guys here on the forums!!

Watch out for the guys with the Texas A&M sigs... I hear they want to meet you behind the school at 3pm. !+)

Didn't you hear? We took care of that already. We landed a group "haymaker" at the very end of the fight and walked away unscathed. :-]
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Postby mrblitz » Wed Nov 15, 2006 4:51 pm

That sucks. But take it from someone who has had alot worse happen to him. I know it may not seem it now, but Time really does heal all wounds. If it was meant to be she will come back someday, and then it's your decison to take her back or not. You are still young, and you'll know when it's right. Good Luck
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