I know I don't post here very much anymore, but I wanted to share this with you all. For those of you who have been here for years and years, you know my story...
Well, the story is over.
For some of you here, this would be no news to you, especially if you are younger. To bring everyone who is new up to speed - I'm 29 years old and have never had ANY female companionship until this point in time. Hell, I had never even kissed a girl until last December. I'm pretty much the Cafe's version of the 40 Year Old Virgin. In years past the guys have talked about putting "funds" together for me; that's how bad I was. So, if you can guess where this is going...
Yep. If you can believe it, I have a girlfriend. I can't believe it myself. We really, really, really like each other and have for some time. I wasn't able to pursue her before because she was in a relationship...she just broke up with her boyfriend last week, and she told me that she has wanted to see me for a while now. We went on a date to a local fair, and we also went to the bar where we first met where I sang a song to her. We went back to my place, and the night concluded in a very...well, special way.
I couldn't ask for much more right now. Thanks for anyone in the past who has encouraged me to do more things with women. I really don't want to let this girl go...ever.
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A piece of friendly (albeit unsolicited) advice. Try not to go too fast too soon (although from the sound of things you found 4th gear already ), especially considering she just came out of another relationship. It sounds like you have real feelings for her, and it'd be a shame to see you (or her for that matter) end up getting hurt by rushing things.
Best of Luck to you man.
"I disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it." -- Voltaire
So can we expect a username change to Mercer Man? Can we call you M&M now?
I’ve been saying for a while that it’s the girl’s loss if she doesn’t want to date you. You’re smart, you’re funny, you’re pretty decent looking (for a guy). Sometimes it seems like women don’t get that “Good Guy” because they don’t have a clue where to look.
It’s nice to see someone finally looked in your direction.
Enjoy your time together. Relationships are the best thing in the world. Well, next to kids that is. But you’re probably not ready for that step yet.
The Lung wrote:WOO-HOO! Congratz, Mercer!
This is the dawning of the Age of Aquarius, the Age of Aquarius...
Now all Mercer needs is a 'fro and some tie-dye and he'd be ready to go. My dad was a theater performer in the 70's so I know all about Hair.