I didn't even see what you wrote besides the little blurb Raff quoted. It's pretty tough to offend me. I'm very laid back. A few years ago when I was on HGH... yes, I'll admit to it, unlike some baseball players... I would have snapped at everything... Raff remembers those days I'm sure... Nowadays, eh... very little offends me, no worries.
Losing a father is a much different story than losing an 87 year old grandma. I've had years of knowing this day would come. My condolences for your loss. I hope you and your family is ok.